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Some
Questions you may be asking
Why do people go into
naturism?
The reasons vary. Often,
it's for freedom and the shedding of the pressures of life with the
clothes. For many of us, naturism extends to the home; nudity helps us
to unwind - that may sound bizarre but just try it. Taking off clothes
has a way of removing social barriers too.
What is the
difference between naturists and nudists?
None really. In America,
the term nudist is universal but in the UK, some people use nudism to
describe rather more extrovert nude behaviour. That's an arbitrary
distinction.
Beware, you can sometimes
see adverts for nudism linked with various occult practices. This isn't
naturism / nudism, it's an occult practice which takes place in the
nude.
With my figure, how
can I go nude?
Easily! You will find
that people are far less aware of your shape than you are. Naturists
tend to be more aware of people for what they are than for what they
look like.
By the way, the photographs on this site
are of models who have particular skills in front of a camera lens - although
they're comfortable with nudity, they're not yet Torbay Sun Club members!
What if
I meet someone I know?
That's brilliant; you've just found a
shared interest that you didn't know you had! They're there for the same
reason that you are and they'll be really pleased to see you.
My other half isn't interested
in naturism but I would like to come along. Is that O.K.?
This is probably the most commonly
asked question of all. Yes it is O.K. but, for any visitor, it's subject
to a maximum of two visits in any year.
We try to keep the
genders in balance and we would very much prefer that you
show this page to your partner and see if you can put his or her concerns to
rest. It might well be something new that you can enjoy together.
I've never gone nude before;
how do I start?
This is probably the second most
common question. Take your clothes off! Try it at home first and get
used to the feeling and freedom of being naked - it's not that different from
having a bath or shower.
The worst part about taking your clothes off for
the first time in public is thinking about it. Most people find that, once
they have done it, it was easy and there was nothing to worry about.
Will I be the only woman among
a lot of men?
No, we aim to keep the Club
roughly gender balanced.
I'm shy about going
nude, can I wear a swimsuit to start with, or at least keep a bikini
bottom on?
That
really is the way to look conspicuous in a naturist environment!
Apart from at a very small number of social evenings, all Torbay Sun
Club indoor events are naturist and we don't allow swimwear. In the
long run that makes it easier for you - if you start nude, it won't be
an 'event' when you get rid of that cossie.
Can children wear
their bathers?
No, not at our events. If
naturism is new to you and your family, explain to them before you
leave home what you are going to be trying - and then enjoy it together.
Aren't children at
risk amongst naturists?
No, they're probably
safer than elsewhere. Like many other naturist groups, in the Torbay
Sun Club we take the safety and well-being of our young people very
seriously and we have two members serving as Child Protection Officers
who have been chosen for their skills and checked
by the Criminal Records Bureau .
Will other people know that I
come to your events?
No, not unless you tell them.
Membership of the Torbay Sun Club and attendance at our events is strictly
confidential and we would only disclose your name and address under these
extreme circumstances:
Why do you keep
talking about Clubs? Are they the only places you can go nude?
This site exists
to tell you about the Torbay Sun Club, but of course naturism isn't
restricted to clubs and there are beaches and open spaces which are
well used by naturists too - and you can go nude in your own home.
Do I need to shave
off or trim my pubic hair?
No, not at all. Some people do and others
don't - it's
entirely a matter of personal choice.
What about the Sexual Offences Act?
Naturists were very worried that
the Act would threaten their lifestyle. Naturists everywhere, including
from Torbay Sun Club, put together a very well organised information campaign
whilst the Act was going through its Bill stages. After much discussion, clarity and common sense
eventually
prevailed. This is the current position:
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We support the Act.
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Numerous publications
from the government show that it is no intention of the Act to restrict
the activities of bona fide naturists.
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Nudity would only be
an offence if it were intended to cause alarm or distress. Away from
Clubs, private houses and 'official' or well used naturist venues, we
recommend sensible courtesy to anyone who might be upset by nudity.
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We believe that as
naturism isn't about sex, it can't be a 'Sexual Offence'.
Click here to check on the wording of the Act.
Section 66 was the one of most concern to naturists and, after much
wrangling, it's now delightfully clear and simple.
If someone approaches me for 'swinging', is it all
right to say 'No'.
Yes of course it is. As long as it's legal, what people do in the privacy of their own homes is up to them but, in
the Club environment, you shouldn't even be asked to
'swing'.
So isn't a naturist Club just an excuse for
'swinging'?
No, not at all. Naturism isn't about sex and, if you are into
'swinging', a naturist club isn't the best place to start and there are
other avenues you might want to explore.
Overt sexual activity would be frowned on in most
naturist clubs so wait until you get home and enjoy sex in private!
I am a male and I'm worried about - you know
- getting excited if an attractive lady walks past.
Because naturism isn't a sexual experience,
you're no more likely to get an erection at a Club event than when you have a bath or shower. That lady will actually look far more
provocative in a skimpy bikini or G-string - unclothed, she will still
look attractive but just natural.
You haven't answered the question I really
wanted to ask.
Sorry, that's because we didn't think of it.
Please contact us and we'll
have a go - the only silly question is the one which isn't asked!
Go on, come and see us. You'll be
made very welcome!
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